Is The Proverb 31 Woman Realistic?

by Kathy
(Huntsville, AL)

Is the Proverb 31 Woman realistic, or is she totally unattainable? Here is what Kathy had to say about it in her response to Clothed in Strength and Dignity - Lesson 1 of Your Free Proverb 31 Woman Bible study.


1. Does understanding the true meaning of "chayil" change the way that you see God's plan for you as a woman?

Not quite yet. It is a logical concept, however the implementation of such a task seems afar of for me,because it is all tangled up in my busy-ness

2.Do you ever fall into the trap of striving for the world's idea of a Strong Woman? Why or why not? If so, how can you safeguard yourself from doing this?

I have found myself at times questioning the direction and purpose of my life, I run around daily trying to find fulfillment in the things that I do hoping it will complete me; however, I rarely find it, because I have not created much time in my life and schedule to achieve this goal of a serious relationship with Jesus. I recognize that regular church attendance and giving of my time to church duties still is far-fetched from the missed relationship I desire to have with Christ.

3.Do you feel that the example God gives you in Proverb 31 is attainable? Why or why not?

It is attainable because God gives everyone according to the desires of their heart particularly; if it's to have a closer walk with Him and a better relationship.

4.What are a few ways that you personally could make more time to be like Mary and sit at Jesus' feet?

Early morning devotion and spending time listening to the Lord and not talking so much,but listening (meditation) waiting to hear a word from the Lord for myself. Devoting at least two 15 minute time periods throughout my day to spend with the Lord. this will require that I literally STOP! and make time to do this.