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An affair

I have just ended an affair with a married friend. We are both Christians. I am also married. Neither of our spouses know about it. We didn't have sex, but have flirted and had inappropriate contact several times over the course of the last year. What is worse is that his wife is also my friend. Which I don't deserve to call her a friend, since all of this has happened. Both he and I feel very guilty and have stopped our relationship. I have asked for God's forgiveness and given up to Him my "desire" for this other man. This other man has been asked to be a deacon in his church, and he told me recently that he will have to admit to his wife our infidelity. I am very afraid of this for obvious reasons. The biggest one being I don't see the point in hurting her or their two small kids. Also if he tells her, I would have to tell my husband. This scares me as he has a temper, and I don't know what he would do. Please pray for us, and if you have any advice for me, I would greatly appreciate it.

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by: Alissa Lynne

I am praying for you - I agree with the other person with the title calm after the storm..

When we do things in the dark, it is best to turn it over to the Light - Jesus Christ and seek His direction in how to handle the situation - not telling and keeping things a secret will bring things to an even worse situation between your husband and yourself.

If you want to give your marriage a shot, I say be honest and seek counseling so that both of you can heal and your marriage can too...

Seek God and praying for all that are involved...

Calm after the Storm
by: Anonymous

If he tells his wife,it will cause problems, but the weight of guilt will be lifted, and fear and anxiety will lift from you.God says for us to confess our sins.This allows healing into our lives. There is a calm that comes after every major storm. I will pray for God to give you strenght to get through this difficult time.

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