by Wendy
I would like to discuss Christian Women Friendships.
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Weeding the Garden
I have recently been through an ordeal with a gal that has been my friend for many years. The friendship was fizzling out and I was seeking the Lord for a resolution to the problem. Well he gave me one. Women's friendships are like gardens, most of the time they blossom beautiful flowers but sometimes weeds get in. Now be aware that some weeds look like flowers and so you leave them in your garden. After a while the weeds will surely show themselves by strangling out the pretty flowers leaving only destruction in the bed. That is exactly what happended to me. The weed was there for years and when all my flowers were gone and it was just me and the weed I had to rip it out. God brought to me the perfect situation to desolve the friendship and have since been able to re-plant my pretty flowers. Now my garden of friends is flourishing and I couldn't be happier. Praise the Lord for Godly women. |
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Your sister
Woman, I believe are guarded because we will be judged. We are so seeking perfection in our homes, in our families, our appearances, that if we show ourselves vulnerable or needing help through prayer, then the facade we have painted has become tainted. One of the greatest conducts a christian woman could make, would be to be transparent. When we become transparent, we become approachable. Then, and only then can we ministry to each others needs. Confindentuality is also so important. If you want to be used, be trusted first. Then woman can open up to you, and you can be used to minister. Woman, let's break down the barrier the enemy has placed in our spirits and begin to be woman God can use to minister to each other. We are sisters in Christ, let's start looking like it through love for each other by serving one another |
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Friendships are Essential
Godly Friendships are important. We need people like us around to help us walk through this journey called Christianity. God never said that it was going to be easy. This is why he removes the wrong people and brings in the right ones to help with the process,growth and development. As women,we can be better friends to each other by learning to appreciate ones differences. Understanding that we were made uniquely but in the image of God. Eliminating the spirit of fear,jealousy and resentment. I believe if we can understand God's love for us and how he forgave, never judged,never criticized us, then we can learn to share that same love with other women. John 3:16 says God loves us so much that he gave his only begotten son. We can be better friends to each other if we love the way God loves us. Be Blessed, Tanya |
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I totally Agree!
I was actually watching Joyce Meyer this week, and they were having a series related to her Woman to Woman book. There were a panel of women and they all asked her questions. One of the issues that came up was Christian women friendships. It really struck me because I think women out in the world are so many issues trusting other women that you will hear many say they prefer men friends over women friends. Somehow, this has crept into the church! I know that I personally have struggled with this. I trust other Christian women - to an extent. This is really forcing me to seek God and ask why I still feel so guarded. |
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Sincerely answering your questions
I have been going through a time of soul searching this subject. Yes, I believe that Godly women can be an inspiration to each other. We can be different, yet at the same time help each other through this journey. We need to know that we will be loved and excepted by each other right where we are on our journey. Trust is another value that is needed to have in that person. It is a value that I feel is taken lightly. In my heart I believe whatever is shared with me is meant to stay with me and God. We are to pray for each other and give this friendship the respect it deserves. |
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