Humbly Waiting On a Husband

by miya
(georgia)

hello,

my name is miya. i am a 26yr old single mother of twin boys. i am saved and filled with the Holy Ghost, amen!

i would like to discuss God's design for us who aren't married. staying focus and just loving god until our husbands come along that he has for us

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Waiting on God NEW
by: Anonymous

I am a 60 year old great grand mother and have 3 grown children. I was married young and it ended in divorce because of abuse on
his part. I had 2 other children but was not married to either of their fathers. Have had other relationships but none have produced marriage. I had come to the point that I thought I was suppose to be alone so became content when insteps someone from my past so I thought than God had to definitly send him because I was going alone content and had prayed and asked God for someone with the qualities he posessed.How blessed I felt thanking God for answering my prayers but low and behold its over he is out of my life and back to his previous life. I get so lonely sometimes I really pray that Gods sends me a God fearing husband a man who is following God and God is the head of his life. Please God no drinkers, no liar, no whoremonger, no smokers.
I love the Lord but sometimes I get truly lonely.

Education NEW
by: Anonymous

If the underdeveloped countries are not able to make the free education and professional dissertation in the society. The countries are not able to developed because every developed country become develop through education.

My mate NEW
by: Anonymous

I stand in agreement with God he has someone especially for me. I decree and declare his word and his promises. In jesus name amen.

looking for a biblical woman NEW
by: Marcel

I'm a single catholic male and I too hope
and pray to God to grant me a wife who is
a good woman, a woman of virtue and good
qualities. I truly ask God to allow me to
find a woman of unique qualities, a woman
very fine in spirit. The Lord knows I've
been waiting for her all of my life and
I have preserved myself chaste and clean
all these years in wait for that lady who
God has destined and preserved for me from
all eternity. Only God knows my heart full
of love for her and that a good woman has
not yet appeared in my life. He knows I've
faithfully waited on the promise He once
made to me many years ago that He had a very
good lady preserved for me. He also knows
that I have preserved myself in his ways and
in his presence at all times and He knows the incredible and violent attacks that I have
endured all these years for her and He knows
how far I'm willing to go just to get to meet
her, for I know she is a woman of quality,
not made for any man, but only for a man who
truly deserves a woman like her. A unique
woman. If there's any lady here who feels
she fits these description feel free to
contact me,send me a message or leave contact
information at: pro-lifeforachild@live.com
God bless you and all those virtuous women
who read this message.

Patiently waiting NEW
by: Leslie Warren

I am a 30 yr. old single mother of three. I have been waiting on my God fearing man for over a year now and it does get frustrating sometimes because I am human and I get lonely but I know what His promise says and I know that when I receive him I will be thankful and appreciate him because of the wait. I am learning something new about waiting everyday. I already know how to cook my butt off, I can sing and I am in the Vibe choir at church, and I am well kept. He will be pleased but I trust he is near. I am also saved, asnctified, and filled with the precious Holy Ghost and some women have had to wait years but I don't plan on having to wait no where near that long because I can feel him in my spirit that he is so close I can almost touch him. But just stat strong in faith and whatever you do do not give yourself away because it creates soul ties and you don't want that.

Waiting NEW
by: Anonymous

I am also waiting for husband and I know there are some things that I have to get right and worked on before I meet my husband. I'm 23 years old and I've been waiting on a God fearing man.

We're waiting too
by: T. S

I'm sure that like me, many other christian men are waiting on a wife as well. The trouble seems to be in making contact. For my own self I can say I will love and cherish her deeply. I hope your encouraged and stay faithful to HIM who is worthy.

to carly
by: Flora

I think that we are designed to want to be with a man. As the bible says " and a woman's desire shall be for the man." So waiting on God is okay. What we do in our time of waiting is whats crucial. Its the time that we have to seek God and focus on Him, trusting Him completely, because He understands all our feelings and He loves us beyond comprehension. Therefore when He's done doing His work in us, In His time He will bring our desires to fulfillment according to His word in PS 37:4

Wanting God to send me a soul mate
by: Jude

I lost my spouse 4 years ago. I have prayed for a Christian man to come into my life. I get very lonely. I was told to try online dating services. Even the Christian ones don't always reveal Christians plus I can't afford a "hit and miss" all the time. I've been getting nowhere. Is God not listening, or does He not care? I feel time is passing me by.

Sometimes
by: Yvie

Sometimes, I get lonely, being q single mom who has never been married. I too experience that same issue where everyone, for the most part, at my church is married and the majority of ny family members agree married. Sometimes it is frustrating when I go to church or to a family function and see everyone coupled. What's even more frustrating is when I see a man that I'm potentially interested in and he is not saved...aren't there any Saved/sanctified/holy-ghost-filled men of valor left? I oftentimes wonder if I am going to be single for the rest of my life, but I always find myself thinking of marriage, of a family, of a husband who will love and respect me and my son and raise my son to be a man, a man of God. With that being said, I've decided to get closer to Jesus... And stay close to him, married or not.

Made as am waiting
by: Anonymous

Well i believe am made as i am waiting, and yes av strayed av been lost and fallen short of His glory bt He redeemed me with His mercies and i take every experience as a learning chance while am single. Psalms 37:4 is my motto. So bros n sisters let us be made as we wait !

i am waiting too
by: Jen

Been through a life of being used and abused and refused. Rejected over and over. In the church six years now, waiting patiently for a man of God, prayed, fasted, sowed seeds, asked the Lord, and ofcourse waited and make myself busy in the things of God.
Lke my sister in the previous posts, the men all are in relationship now, the last person who left me is now happily married (so it seem) i am asking the Lord - when. At times i am fine, but other times i just feel so lonely. Sometimes i wish my daughters had a father figure and i had a stable home.
The Lord walked and talked with Adam yet he said it wasnt good for man to be alone. Singleness is a gift that not everyone got, Apostle Paul said that. So we shouldnt be judged either for these desires..ll be strong my sisters and brothers, and lets keep living with expectancy. LOve

I am almost there
by: Anonymous

I'm 37 and my 3 children are almost all grown up. I only have a 12 year old at home, now. Thank you Lord for walking me down the aisle and being my spouse for the last 20 years of my life when the fathers, yes fathers, of the children decided they wanted to do something different. I am content. I am a worshiper. Thank you for having my best interest at heart when others, which swore they loved me, did not. Thank you for taking me back when I stepped out and had children out of wedlock in the first place, you mercy endures forever. Thank you for taking my eyes off what I thought I missed and putting them on what I received. I love you Lord.

I can relate
by: Daniela

I can relate to all those who are longing for a life companion. I'm 38 years old and ever since I got baptized into my church, I've been waiting, hoping and praying for a godly man to come into my life. However, I've only experienced disappointments so far. Sometimes it's really hard for me to wait, especially as my desire for physical intimacy is very strong. I know that a man won't give me true contentment in life, only the Lord Jesus can. Lately, I've been praying earnestly that He may help me to be joyful in Him and find more contentment in life by serving Him. Yet I know He won't take away this unquenchable desire for a husband from me. I really don't want to think about the possibility of never getting married, as I'm really yearning to receive this wonderful gift and serve the Lord together with a faithful, godly man. But we have to live one day at a time. I know the Lord can act on my behalf, and He can send me a suitable companion, although statistically it doesn't seem easy to find someone. Well, I'm earnestly praying that He may perform this miracle - in His time...

Faith. Peace. Joy.
by: Anonymous

You all are such a blessing to me! Your words have touched my heart & given me great inspiration as a 27 year old, single, never married, young woman who is being transformed daily by His grace. I started the habit of getting up 30 mins earlier to start my day in heartfelt Bible study, then listen to sermons on my podcast as I get ready. On my way to work each day, I talk to God about the many burdens this world continues to pressure me with. It's amazing the joy & peace I live with as I have continued doing this for over a year now. My life has changed... primarily in my perspective of trials in our lives. I see how the hardships produce a heart after Him. They change us, make us stronger, & teach us how to have His peace even when chaos surrounds us. He has done miracles in my life in the past few months, & I give Him all praise for His grace & love. God moves when we give Him top priority in our lives. The power of His peace is beyond what words could possibly describe.
I just want to thank you all for your wonderful advice. I have a heart full of love for you all! :) May God keep you & bless u always!

Hello lovelies.
by: Obi

I am a single christain male, seriously searching for a wife. If any of you single ladies think I may be someone you will love to spend the rest of your life with. I am awaiting your reply soon. I am a nice guy and very much will love to settle down with a nice God fearing lady. My yahoo ID is..Obindo2001@yahoo.com. Feel free to ask me anything. Takecare and May God amswer our prayers.

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by: encouraged

I myself am a single mother of 1 (never married). I'm so encouraged to see all of the comments regarding my same issue... waiting on a husband. I'm currently in a church family composed of married couples all with children and its hard to watch all of them together and ask God "Why would you put me here? Why do I have to be the only one without a husband?" I went through a low point when I became unemployed and then my daughter went to kindergarten. Sometimes it's easy to think that God has simply put our desires aside. My question is: What if it's not in God's will for me to be married? What if I'm going to be a single mother for the rest of my life and never know what biblical marriage is like? I feel like I could be ok with never being married if only my desires for such things were not in me. If I didnt want for a husband and family constantly, it wouldnt be so hard. I know that it is about God's will 1st but trying to discern it can be trying sometimes. Anyways, its nice to see others that I can identify with. Everyone in my group tells me stuff like "Oh you're gorgeous, you could have any guy you wanted!" or "It will happen in God's time"- thats easy for them to say- they are ALL married to Christian men! I'm trying to take my desires and die to the self a little more daily until I can hopefully not even think about men in that way. I know in my heart the Jesus is my treasure and my everything but I'm sure it is Satan holding the apple in front of me disguised as marriage saying "Why would God keep this from you? Doesn't He love you enough to give you what you want?" Oh well, God is still good and He has been so faithful when I come to him in humility.

Waiting on God to send the right mate!
by: Denise.

I was married I find myself hurting in places I feel deep in my soul. I didn't see myself ever getting a divorce until I realized my spouse has cheated on me gave me sexually transmitted disease's never come clean to the truth lies about it to this day I haven't fully recovered. We separated in 2006 he got married this year. I ask God why did he get a new wife when he cheated on the one he had and God where's my husband? I was a uderstanding wife like in the book of probverbs.

Perfect Love
by: Hannah

Everyone longs to give themselves completely to someone,
To have a deep soul relationship with another,
To be loved thoroughly and exclusively.
But, God, to a Christian says:
No, not until you are satisfied, filled and content with being loved by Me alone.
With giving yourself totally and unreservedly to Me alone.
Discovering that only in Me is your satisfaction to be found
Will you be capable of the perfect human relationship that I have planned for you.
You will never be united with one another until you are united with Me.
Exclusively for anyone or anything else.
Exclusively for any other desires or longings.
I want you to stop wishing and allow Me to give you the most thrilling plan existing.
One that you cannot imagine. I want you to have the best.
Please allow Me to bring it to you.
You must keep watching Me, expecting the greatest things.
Keep experiencing the satisfaction that I am, keep learning what I want to tell you.
You just wait, wait. That’s all.
Don’t be anxious.
Don’t worry.
Don’t look around at the things that others have gotten or that I have given them.
Don’t look at the things you think you want.
You just keep looking off and away to Me, or you’ll miss what I want to show you,
When you are ready…
I will surprise you with a love more beautiful than you could dream of.
You see, until you are ready, and until the one I have for you is ready, You will never be able to Experience the great love that is waiting for you.
(I am working even at this very moment to have both of you ready at the same time)
Until you are both satisfied with Me and the life I’ve prepared for you,
You won’t be able to experience the love that exemplifies your relationship with Me,
And this is the perfect love. And dear one, I want you to have the most wonderful love.
I want you to see in flesh a picture of your relationship with Me and enjoy the
Everlasting union of beauty, and perfection and love that I offer you with Myself.
Know that I love you utterly. I am God.
Believe it…and be satisfied.

Honesty
by: MissionChik

As a single mother of three young children I can say with all sincerety that once I truly fell in love with my Creator and began serving Him in purity and holiness from my heart, I now feel a husband would take away from this wonderful relationship. Now, I know that's not entirely accurate and I still would like to marry if God brings an earthly husband in His time, but honestly I am 100% content and joyful living to love and serve Him! He provides everything I need to take care of 'our' three children. He is so loving, even romantic, if we allow Him to romance us...truly the lover of our soul!

God knows what we want and what we need lets be honest with ourselves
by: Anonymous

Many women single, widowed and divorced are trusting God for a husband. God said he will give us the desires of our heart. Its nothing wrong for asking God to send me a husband. God said when a man finds a wife he finds a good thing.

When your every conversation and all your energy goes to I want a husband, you need a reality check. In my own life I had to learn to trust God and to fall in love with him, get in his word, play worship and praise music, praise God myself, spend time talking to him, learning to be quiet, have balance in my life,have Godly fun and appreciate the blessings God has given me whether a husband comes along or not.

I try to be carefull of movies, songs, conversations and things that go in my ear and eye gate that may tempt me or allow lust to rise up.Caller ID is awesome. Use it if you need it. (Smile)or RUN RUN if need be.

I had to love me. I'm working on my career, credit, my health, my home and etc. This is all for me and to give God glory. When God sends me my husband I will not have all this baggage.
I have days. When spring time comes, I hear a familiar songs or I see other blessed couples. I can't dwell on I'm alone. A woman have to confess that she is special and that she is not desperate.

I have to know God is faithful. I heard someone say that God asked them " Aren't I enough for you? Well, we say yes but then we have our days wheras we say Lord I need a tangible , touchable earthling to.
We all know where we are weak. Read the word everyday. There are 31 Proberbs, one for each day except Feb ( smile) If you miss one keep on going forward. You will get wisdom and strength to know God's heart toward you. God bless all who reads this.

waiting
by: Carly

I am widowed after 20 years of marriage and have 3 daughters. I wonder if women are supposed to be waiting on a husband, is a husband really necessary for us to be fullfilled, happy women and Christians? Our time is more our own when we are single. Of course I realize it is much harder for single women who have young children.
I would enjoy others thoughts on this.

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