Marriage on the rocks
by Pascaline
(Alpharetta, U.S. A)
I have been married now almost five years, but Sam and myself knew ourselves back in high school about eighteen years ago.
So far, he is not a believer, but was raised by Christian parents.
The marriage from the get go has been on the rocks, and I am so tired and I have been in the court to file for separation. He has been in and out of the relationship, but because I want it to work, he has taken it to another level.
We have three children 14,4 and 18 months old, and he lives in the house without telling me his whereabout. I have felt he has been having affairs, but I do not know the lady and for how long this has been going on, but it definitely breaks my heart and affects everything that I do.
I was not working for a while, but he does not give me a dime, and treats me as a maid.
I need prayers and an advice on what to do, I am so confused.
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God is able
I am in a similar situation. My husband has accepted Jesus as is savior but does not apply the word of God to his life. Seek God for peace as you go through this painful experience. Seek God for Godly wisdom and advise. There is not anything we go through that is so big that it would make God say WOW I cannot handle that. May his peace be your guide. |
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marriage on the rocks
I know where you are coming from as I too am married to an unbeliever for going on 18 yrs. We have 4 children. There are times when I want to give up; but God has given me the strength to carry on. My children are about grown now & we still go to church together. Stay close to your children, they are what matters. Thank God for His mercy & grace..I put my trust & faith in God..He will show us the way..Keep praying for your husband as I'am still doing..I will pray for you also..As I always say: Let Go & Let God.. There are alot of us out there, so keep us in your prayers too.May the Lord bless you & your family. Sisters in Christ |
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lets pray and encourage each other
I would like to speak further with you. contact me by email starsuber@yahoo.com |
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God will!
I know you love your huseband and I wouldn't doubt that he loves you, but he is lost right now and needs to find Jesus. You need to keep praying for his salvation and continue to treat him well, but let him know how you feel whether through a lettter or an e-mail if you don't feel comfortable talking face to face. I don't know your whole situation but in 1Cor. it says that if a unbeliever and a christian are married and the unbeliever wishes to leave then you must allow him to go. But it also says that if the unbeliever does not wishes to leave and is willing to try to change then you must stay with the unbeliever. I will pray for you at this very minute and know that you must seek God for all your answers through prayer and then trust that everything will work out to God's perfect will. |
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