Marriage? Or Wait?
My question is marriage or wait? My boyfriend and I have been together for more than a year. We are both over 20 years old, and are extremely serious. We've both grown up in Christian homes, and are very devoted to God. We both were planning on saving ourselves for marriage, but because of our deep connection to each other, we both lost our virginity to one another. We feel that God specially designed us for each other, and have known since day one that we would someday marry. Throughout the time we have been together I have felt guilty about sinning outside of marriage, and have felt like we should stop, but it's really hard, and we enjoy the connection so much.. He already has a ring for me, but financially were not sure when we should marry...next summer or another year? We both feel like God would much rather us honor him and look for his guidance, making him the center of our relationship, than to not marry because of money.
What should we do? Not marry because of financial difficulties, or Marry to Honor God? I want him to bless our relationship, and feel like its more important to do that, and know that he will always provide, or wait?
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